"Fulbright grants are made to U.S. citizens and nationals of other countries for a variety of educational activities, primarily university lecturing, advanced research, graduate study and teaching in elementary and secondary schools. Since the program’s inception, approximately 279,500 participants—chosen for their academic merit and leadership potential—with the opportunity to exchange ideas and to contribute to finding solutions to shared issues."
About 800 people from the U.S. are selected to go abroad each year. As part of the application for the Fulbright Grant, Josh had to find, develop, and propose his own project to work on in the country of his choice. After spending a couple weeks in Central America two summers ago, Josh had met people that led to a contact at a health center in rural Ecuador. They desperately wanted volunteers, and Josh has had the desire to work in a rural setting in Central or South America for as long as I've known him, so this was the perfect project for him.
The specific place of this health center is in northwestern Ecuador, in the community of La Y de La Laguna, in the region of El Paramo. This place is so rural that it's not really even on any maps or internet searches! (The closest town you can see on a map is Rosa Zarate, also known as Quininde, in case some of you wanted to look it up.) Foundation Human Nature is the organization that coordinates all the projects and volunteers at this location. Their website gives a pretty good description of what goes on at this health center: http://fhnusa.org/
So....Josh has been accepted and we're excited, but the timing of things isn't the most convenient with a baby on the way in August! The beginning of September is when he's supposed to start. If we go, Josh would definitely have his start time pushed back a few weeks and I would go to Ecuador even later. Ok, I know that obviously we are crazy people for even thinking this would all be possible with a newborn in the first place!!! And I know most people wouldn't even consider it. But I guess I married a guy who isn't like most people, and I guess I can consider myself somewhat adventurous. Josh wants to do this so badly, and I've been the one being very cautious and hesitant but trying to be supportive of him at the same time. Before we knew he was accepted we got to the point where we avoided discussing the situation because it often turned into disagreements and arguments. But now that we need to make a decision we have to discuss it. We've obviously thought of all the pros and cons, and there are plenty on both sides.
It would be the adventure of a lifetime, we'd be living in a beautiful country, we'd be surrounded by great people, Josh would get to do medical care, he'd get to use his Spanish, it would give him so many opportunities and it has the potential to open so many doors, it's give him a needed break from medical school (he'd finish his last year of med school once we've returned), we'd get to travel to the surrounding countries and see lots of South America, I might learn a little Spanish. But we'd also be without so many luxuries and conveniences, we'd be far from family, we'd only have a small space to live in, transportation would be difficult, we'd be without or far from hospital access, we'd be living in a malaria zone, we'd have to boil all our water before drinking it, living in a "hut" (as I call it) in the jungle isn't an ideal place to raise a baby, I'd have to adjust to motherhood in a foreign country without friends and family around. Both lists go on and on.
We've been talking with people who have volunteered and who are currently volunteering there to get a better idea of what it would be like, what our options are, and how feasible it all really will be. They know we have a baby coming, and Josh proposed the idea of perhaps spending some time in an area that's not quite so rural. They mentioned that we could spend part, maybe even half, of our time in Quito, the capital of Ecuador. It's large with over 2 million people, and has all the modern conveniences of a large city. We'd even be able to live in a nice apartment (with a dishwasher perhaps!!). I, of course, love this option! It makes going to Ecuador with a baby seem sooo much more possible, and more exciting. Josh would still end up doing some time in the rural village, hopefully we'd be able to manage ok.
At this point us moving to Ecuador is probably 90 to 95% certain. The other 5-10% is dependent on me giving the final go ahead. So, wish us lots of luck! Here are some pictures of where we'd be. I took them from the blog of a girl who is currently living there, working on her PhD. (There's a link on the side of my blog if anyone wants to see more pictures of Ecuador.)
This is the health center.
It serves La Y de la Laguna, plus several smaller surrounding communities/villages.
The brand new volunteer house, still under construction. This is where we'd likely live. The bottom floor is an open area with kitchen and bathroom. The top has seven bedrooms.
The bottom floor of the volunteer house, completed.
A view of the village. Once seeing this you realize that the new volunteer house is actually quite nice.
The view from the volunteer house. Pretty!
We'd get to see gorgeous sunsets!
I'm sure we'd also get to see lots of waterfalls like this.

This is Quito. It looks like a beautiful city. It's surrounded by tall mountains, even active volcanoes!










20 comments:
That is seriously crazy! You must really have an adventurous spirit to want to take a newborn down there. But hey....if everyone stayed healthy that could make for a once in a life time experience!! How exciting. I wonder if they have disposable diapers there?
Wow. I think the malaria zone would be the kicker for me, since it'd be so much worse for a baby. But living in the city would be ok! Just pray, pray, and pray some more that you'll know which decision to make!
oh my gosh Melanie, you HAVE to do this!!! What a great opportunity for you as well as Josh! Just make sure you get all the passport papers for your baby signed and taken care of as much as possible BEFORE its born so that you pretty much just need to write in the name and get the 2 baby photos to send in with it (if they're still doing the photo thing, my friend just got her passport updated and she said they weren't...but I'm not sure).
I've been wanting to go to Ecuador for a while. Supposedly the hiking and stuff is AWESOME. Just see if you can take some vaccines from work before you quit so you can vaccinate your baby...just joking!! Wow. Congratulations Josh. How great that you guys even get to make this decision.
Crazy stuff! I am so excited for you. I feel lik a terrible friend. I did not realize you were pregnant. How exciting. YEAH!!!!! And we are due about a month apart. Too bad we don't live closer. So how are you feeling? I hope the pregnancy is and has gone great. Again congrats and I am so happy for you!!!!!!!
Wow! Congratulations to Josh and good luck in making your decision. It's never an easy thing, but as long as you're united in the decision, then all will be well!
WOW!! That is very cool. How long would you be there? I admire his and your adventurous personalities. I totally understand your hesitations with bringing a new baby and adjusting to motherhood in a foreign place. I know that if you decide to go though that you'll be blessed with what you need. I hope that you will have internet access and keep up this blog. Talk about interesting!
Will you be coming to AZ this summer. I'd love to see you. Especially if your going to be gone for a while.
Wow!! Boy, you and Rae, wanting to live in different countries... I think you're absolutely crazy, but I can also see you being strong enough to handle it!! I, on the other hand, am a HUGE wuss!!!
I can't imagine not having family around while you're figuring out how to be a mom.... But again, you must be stronger than me, to even CONSIDER this!!
Well, I'm sad you guys will be gone next year... but I'm sure it'll be a great experience for you both!
Oh my gosh, that is awesome! What an expeiriment!
WOW!! Congratulations! What an amazing opportunity! If I was in your shoes I'd be just as torn...especially because of the baby factor...but MAN! The probably safe from ever having to make such a decision is thinking: I hope I'd have the courage and faith to do it. :)
Josh is scheduled to work in Ecuador for 10 months. So we'd return summer 2009, then Josh would complete his 4th year of med school. And I'm pretty sure they have disposable diapers, esp. in Quito. :)
Mom said when she talked to you in Chicago that you were thinking of living in AZ for a month when Josh first goes over there? I think you should just make it 2 & do it when he's living in the most jungley parts :). & you should live at our house for those two months. I'd totally even give you your old room back. & I'd babysit. Think about it.
Dang, this makes moving to New Jersey look like a walk in the park. You guys will make the best decision for you family. Once you decide, everything will go smoothly. Plus it's only for a year. That time will fly so fast. I think not knowing the language would be the part I worried about. I have told John I would relocate out of the country as long as I spoke the language. Time to wip out the "Learn to speak Spanish" CDs. Ha Ha. What a great opportunity. It seems that this would be really hard to pass up. Keep us informed.
WOW! i am envious of your adventurous life! That's not a very long time to have to live there, but it would give you a lifetime of memories! how exciting!!!
Hey, the links for the camps are camppontiac.com, kenmontkenwood.com, and campcayuga.com. Camp Poniac's links haven't been working so you might need to use the toolbar at the top to navigate & stuff. & the websites don't have all of the info sometimes, but they have pictures. & about the sheriff car, it looked like an old guy sitting in there & I heard he was gonna be in Mesa today, but I dunno.
Tough situation! Reading your post brought back my feelings from last year -- finding out I was 20 weeks along, splitting jobs in the summer in 2 different cities and dealing with a toddler on top of that... I thought about staying with Mom, but I wanted to split so I could see both cities and I didn't want to go that long with my husband. SO I TOTALLY HEAR YA! Of course, I was staying in the U.S.
I think you could do it! It would be hard but newborns travel well and don't have to be out and about like older kids. It would be easier to do a year in a country with a baby than with an older child, I would think. What an experince! You'd be without family but hopefully the ward/branch there would become like family. And you're very friendly so you'd meet people. The main concern is avoiding sickness.
Good luck. Sorry this is a LONG comment.
Dude, you guys should do it! This is such a great opportunity. I can see why you are torn though. Don't you love how the timing works out?
That does sound so adventurous! Good luck deciding what to do....I know you two will make the right decision.
Sounds like an amazing adventure and an incredible opportunity! Good luck!
WOW, WOW, WOW! That would be so cool and so adventurous! Your life always seems so much funner than mine. You get to go to so many cool places and see so many new sites. I would totally go for it. Sounds like an anventure. I don't think it would be too bad with a newborn.
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